Music is a universal language that everyone can understand. No matter what language a song is sung in, the melody is immediately recognizable and can be enjoyed nonetheless. While music is innately part of our human nature, some people never developed it or lost interest in it entirely. How and why could this happen?
There are many factors that can lead to one losing interest in music. Children are susceptible to this especially when you are actively encouraging them to pursue an interest in music. Before you give up and decide that maybe music is just not for your child, perhaps it’s the approach that’s wrong. Here are 5 reasons why your child is losing interest in music and what you can do about it.
Not Incorporating Technology
What used to be “fun” was playing outside, physical activities and perhaps even reading a book. Nowadays, however, it’s the age of apps, internet streaming and technology. While some people may not view this positively, that is beside the point. The point is that today’s standards have changed and whether you like it or not, everyone has to adapt to the changing times.
One way to spark interest in your child to music is to incorporate the use of apps on your smart devices. Leaving a child alone with the gadget is never a good idea, but spending the time with them and using the app together can bring fun to your learning session and create a positive impression of music to your child.
Never Had a Live Experience
While music is often associated with the sense of sound, there’s so much more to it. Anyone who ever went to a live concert can attest that it’s also about the sight, atmosphere and the indescribable feeling of simply being there. It’s an experience that can’t be replicated unless you’re there in person.
One way to build an interest in music for your child is to bring them to watch the orchestra, symphony or even music festivals. Remember, a child is at an impressionable age. Whatever you expose them to would leave a lasting impression throughout their lives, so giving them a positive experience when it comes to music goes a long way.
Not Enough Exposure
From the top of your head, how many genres of music can you name? While there are hundreds if not thousands of music genres in the world, we all have our own musical preference. There are genres that we enjoy and there are genres that we’re just not interested in. If this is the case with us, why would it be any different with children?
Maybe the reason why your child is not interested in the piano is that he or she much prefers playing the guitar instead. While these are different instruments, both are still music nonetheless. Don’t be afraid to introduce to them a variety of genres and instruments. Chances are, you’ll bound to find one that your child would genuinely be interested in. It’s Not Rewarding
For children, feelings and emotions are important. If they feel that something is boring or unpleasant, they would be quick to lose interest in it. If they can’t find positive experience in learning music, it is unlikely they would continue this pursuit as they can’t see its worth. Therefore, why not make it more rewarding for your child?
Try incorporating fun elements into it and establish a reward system towards their practice. It’s a give and takes; once they achieve a certain goal or complete a set of tasks, they get rewarded. Having the right motivation can push them towards the right direction and this can help build their interest in music as time goes by.
Not Enough Involvement
In order to build an active interest in music, parents have to take on an active role in shaping it. That means you can’t simply leave your child by themselves and expect them to develop their affinity in music on their own. When they are left this way, they might end up feeling isolated and lonely and see no point in continuing.
Instead of that, be more involved. Listen, understand and support your child in every step of their journey. One way you could do so is to play and sing songs together with them whenever you can. Make it a fun social experience and create great memories with them. This is also a good way to bond with your child.
Hopefully, by applying these tips, your child might be able to have a lifelong interest in music. With a little bit of effort, you can turn this interest into a passion.
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